Monday, March 15, 2010

Will Not Apologize

Yes, I have decided that I will not apologize for my achievements. For my hard works. Those are my HARD works, and I'm proud of it, thank you.

So apparently, my future in laws decided to be going against me cause they think I'm too dominant for their precious son, that I will be too hard to control. That I'm too smart, to independent, too opinionated, to strong..

Yes, it shocked me too. I thought I was living in the biggest city of Indonesia and in the 21st century. But I guess, I did it again. Yes, it's not the first time. And no, I will not apologize if I'm being dominant.

As I see it, it's only you, yourself, who can let people treat you wrong. If you're not approved, they won't treat you wrong. If I'm being too dominant, maybe it's because their son liked it. Have they ever thought about that?

But I'm not arguing. And surely not going to apologize if I've grown to be an independent, strong woman who will speak out loud whenever she pleases. My mom taught me well, I can't disappoint her.

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